The
Examen
The Examen traditionally has five
steps:
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Recall you are
in the presence of God. No matter where you are or how “spiritual” you
feel, God the creator is always with you, closer than your next breath.
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Give thanks to
God. Pause and spend a moment looking at this day's gifts. Consider
gifts you’ve given and gifts you have received.
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Ask here in a
special way for the Holy Spirit to come into your heart and to help you
look at your actions this day clearly and with an understanding of your
own limitations. The Spirit will help you understand the mystery of your
human heart, and at this point you ask to learn more about your actions
and motivations. Remember, this is not a “beat up on yourself” session,
where you will grind at the core of your being in sadness over things
you have done wrong. Rather, it is a gentle look with the Lord at how
you have responded to God’s gifts.
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Now examine how
you are living this day. Look step by step at your day, asking questions
like, “When did I fail?” “When did I love?” “What habits and patterns
did I repeat today?” “How did I see and hear God
today?”
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Talk through
your reflections with Jesus as a trusted friend. Say you are sorry for
the things you have done wrong. Thank him for the times he helped you do
what was right. Give thanks for the ways God holds you, speaks to you,
and calls you to new life.
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